It happens to us even if we are the best. Perhaps you've gone out with the person, or at least you've just met, and you've reached the dreaded friend zone now. The rumors say this is where dating prospects die. Once you enter the zone of being friends, you never get out. Is this real, then? Are you doomed always to be a friend of this girl, even if you want more? While there are no promises, but here are a couple of tricks that you can try to convince her that you are much worth more than just being friends.
Make the girl jealous. Though it seems like a really grade school thing to do, in the eyes of the special person, it will really help to raise you to more than a friend. Start dating other girls, instead of chasing your 'friend' around like a puppy dog. If nothing else, you could come across someone new and forget that you've ever had feelings for your friend. In any case, your interest in love may become obsessive enough to know that she had better strike now before you're pulled from the market forever.
The person who puts you in the friend zone may be turned off because you may inadvertently turn all of your attention on them. They can feel this needless pressure from all the energy that you don't know you are putting out. In this situation, the only thing you can do is focus on yourself. Find a new hobby, learn a foreign language, learn to play an instrument, join a club. The more that you invest in your own life, the more appealing you would be to the girl.
The friend zone, or 'friendship zone,' is a concept where you desperately want to become something more than that platonic relationship that you have with a girl. This is a polite way to suggest you'd like to have sex with her. You want to become sexually involved, although she wants only to be friends. It is a very unattractive place for a guy to end up. When this has happened to a friend, it's easy to get trapped in the role of friend. Nonetheless, the escape from the friend zone is possible.
Another way to focus on yourself is to get interested in a diet and exercise schedule if you don't already. Whether you're overweight or can afford to get a little bit more healthy, you'll feel better about yourself if you start eating and exercising properly. All of these behaviors would also have incredible impacts on your appeal. Once you get into a good groove, that person will probably see you in a whole new light. It's goodbye friend zone when that happens.
Become less available when she wants to be friends, so you can show her what that entails. You are no longer there at the drop of a hat for her. You have a life of your own. This doesn't mean being rude, but perhaps doing something else every now and then that you're interested in when she calls. Everyone desires that which they can not easily get.
Essentially, if you keep trying to do the same old stuff, you will get the same results. Consider how you act around the person when you are in the friend zone. Are you flirting with them? Do you touch them while talking, or does your body language express your thoughts to the special person otherwise? Those are all questions that you're going to want to ask if you're ever in the friend zone and want to get out.
So if both of you have agreed to give this thing a go by being only friends, you need to show her that your attention has moved on toward other women. Talk about women to whom you're attracted, what you find sexy about a girl etc. You may want to talk about an incredible relationship you've had in the past, which was really passionate. So let it be so funny because you were friends before you became lovers and that is why you had such a great relationship. Give her essentially a taste of how fun it will be to go to bed with you.
One of the key issues that happens a lot among men is that they always put themselves, without even realizing it, in the friend zone. They are attracted to a girl, and they behave beautifully, being the best friend in the world, and in the hope that she will somehow know what a great prince he is to her and that she will have a sudden heart change. Well, that can happen quite easily if you follow our advice.
Adam Williams is a recognized dating and relationship expert. Working in the field of online dating and having a degree in Psychology, Adam was always interested in helping people with their relationships. He loves seeing happy couples and felling that he was the one to help them build their happiness. Adam is always happy to share his experience and running a blog on our website.